Sex and the City fans, will recall that moment Carrie and Mr. Big interacted for the first time, as he picked up her condoms from the NYC sidewalk. Had her goodies been secure in a "on the go sex pouch" in her handbag, the awkward moment may have been avoided.
In case you aren't familiar with the scene referenced or you want to see it again!
Whether you are a single gal who is dating (or just hooking up) or a married woman who wants to be prepared, there are certain things every woman should keep with her so she doesn’t get caught short.
Of course if you know anything about me, you know I’m talking about sex. Let’s face it, many dates end up in some sort of sexual experience and you want to be prepared. Not all sexual experiences end up in intercourse. Oral sex is awesome. Fingers are fabulous and can reach parts penises might not be able to. And if you’re a gusher or squirter, you might need some “extras”.
But lovelies these "extras" shouldn't just be tossed in your handbag - you don't want a Carrie moment - do you? This is where a little "sex on the go" (SOTG) pouch comes in. Just like you toss a beauty bag into your handbag in case of a lipstick touch up or you need to reapply make up - a SOTG pouch should also be in your handbag.
Essentials that should be in your "sex on the go" pouch:
I made reference above to both single and married women. I am NOT suggesting or encouraging that a married woman (whether they’re officially married or not) steps out on her partner, but it happens. Perhaps they’re in the lifestyle or an open marriage. But I’m also talking about the “married couple”. What if you’re out and about and you get totally turned on and you enjoy outdoor sex? You still want to be prepared.
So there you have it ladies … whether it’s a planned night out or an impromptu opportunity, always have your “go bag” on hand.
Would love for you to share in the comments any item(s) you consider a must have that I may have not included.